Healing Couple Retreat

Join Us for Seven Healing Days to Rebuild Trust, Restore Intimacy, and Rekindle Your Love in the Paradise of Haleiwa, Hawaii!

We know firsthand how infidelity, pornography addiction, and betrayal can shake even the strongest relationships. But we also know this: hope is never lost. That’s why we created this retreat—to give couples like you a chance to step away from the pain of the past and immerse yourselves in a place where healing, trust, and love are not just possible, but inevitable.

Break Free From Cycles of Hurt

Over seven transformative days, we’ll personally guide you through the steps to rebuild your foundation, rediscover intimacy, and reconnect on a deeper level. You’ll enjoy gourmet farm-to-table meals, luxurious massages, and the beauty of Haleiwa, Hawaii, all while learning tools and strategies that will strengthen your bond for years to come.

This retreat isn’t just about healing—it’s about living again. It’s your chance to break free from cycles of hurt, rediscover the connection you’ve been missing, and walk away with a renewed vision for your future together.

We’ve designed every moment to feel like a lifeline. Let us help you restore what’s been lost and guide you toward a love that’s stronger than ever.

This is SPECIAL & UNIQUE Because…

We’ve designed this intimate retreat with YOU in mind, with limited spots available. When registration opens, these spots fill up fast—because couples like you know this is the start of something truly life-changing. Together, we’ll focus on what really matters: healing, rebuilding trust, and learning the skills that will bring lasting love and intimacy back into your relationship. During our time together, we’ll lead you through transformative coaching sessions that dig deep into the heart of what makes relationships thrive—even after betrayal or addiction. Whether it’s untangling patterns of pain, discovering new ways to communicate, or reigniting passion, we’ll give you the tools and support to create the love story you both deserve. And we’ve added some very special bonuses to ensure you’re already seeing shifts in your relationship even before you arrive!

This retreat isn’t just about learning; it’s about living.

You’ll experience luxurious self-care, exhilarating adventures, and private moments to reconnect with your partner—all while being surrounded by a small, supportive community of couples who truly “get it.”

This is everything: relaxing, fun, healing, empowering, and life-changing all at once.

When the week is over, you’ll leave with:

Tools and Strategies
to move forward as a stronger team
 
Renewal
of connection and hope
 
Unforgettable Memories
and a feeling of accomplishment
 

We Needed the Perfect Place to Help Couples Heal and Reconnect…

When we dreamed of creating a retreat for couples to heal, we knew it had to be somewhere truly special—a place that felt like a sanctuary, where love could be rekindled and trust could be rebuilt. That’s how the Hawaii Happiness Farm was born.

Nestled on 7+ acres at the top of a lush valley overlooking the ocean, this breathtaking farm has everything we could imagine to create the perfect space for transformation. From the private bungalows and cabins to the gardens, water features, and even outdoor showers overlooking the valley, every detail has been designed to help couples relax, reflect, and reconnect.

Here’s why the Hawaii Happiness Farm is so unique:

It’s Peaceful and Private:
Each couple gets their own bungalow or cabin, giving you space to breathe and focus on each other.
 
It’s Beautiful and Intentional:
Stroll through orchards, sand paths, and gardens, or listen to the tranquil sounds of water features. Every part of the farm is made to inspire healing and hope.
 
It’s Built for Connection:
There’s a community kitchen and gathering spaces where we’ll share meals and stories, as well as a yoga and session house for group coaching and meditation.
$10,000 Value

We built this farm with one goal in mind: to help couples heal their marriages and rediscover the love they thought they’d lost. We’re so excited to welcome you here—to this place where your story can begin again.

Renew Your Vows in a Dreamlike Sunset Ceremony on Hawaii’s North Shore...

One of the most magical moments of our retreat is the vow renewal ceremony. Imagine standing hand in hand with your partner on a stunning beach, with the golden glow of the Hawaiian sunset reflecting off the waves. This is more than just a ceremony—it’s a celebration of the journey you’ve been on, the love you’ve reclaimed, and the future you’re building together.

We’ve planned every detail to make this experience unforgettable:

We can’t wait to stand with you as you reaffirm your vows and celebrate the love you’ve fought for. This is your moment—a reminder that even after challenges, your story is still beautiful and worth celebrating.
Your Dream Wedding, Reimagined:

Intimate, effortless, and breathtaking, this vow renewal feels like the wedding you’ve always dreamed of—only now with a deeper love and renewed commitment.

Sunset on the North Shore:
With the warm sands beneath your feet and the ocean breeze surrounding you, this is the ultimate setting to say “I do” all over again.

Memories to Treasure Forever

Your time at the retreat will be filled with unforgettable moments—and our professional photographer will ensure those memories last a lifetime. With an eye for capturing authentic connection, every image will reflect the beauty of your love story.

Award-Winning Talent

Our photographer is an award-winning artist, renowned for capturing not just the people but the emotions, intimacy, and stunning landscapes that make Hawaii such a special backdrop.

Perfectly Curated Portraits

From candid moments to breathtaking posed shots, your portraits will be a blend of artistry and intention. Each photograph will showcase the unique bond between you and your partner, framed by Hawaii’s natural beauty.

A Gift to Take Home

These images will become treasured keepsakes, a reminder of your journey together and the transformation you’ve experienced. You’ll walk away with a gallery of portraits that tell the story of your renewed love.

Indulge in Gourmet Farm-to-Table Meals Crafted Just for You

We know that food isn’t just fuel—it’s an experience, especially when you’re on a retreat. That’s why we’ve brought in a professional chef to take care of every single meal during your stay. Hawaii’s rich flavors and tropical ingredients are at the heart of our menu. From fresh, locally sourced fruits to perfectly prepared island-inspired dishes, every bite is designed to delight your taste buds and nourish your body.
We’ve also made sure every detail is covered:
Locally Sourced Ingredients:
Our chef works with local farms to ensure your meals are fresh, flavorful, and authentically Hawaiian.
 
Farm-Fresh Fruits:
Whenever possible, we incorporate fruits grown right here on the farm—nothing beats the taste of mangoes, papayas, and bananas picked at their peak.
 
Full Culinary Experience:
From sunrise breakfasts to candlelit dinners, every meal will feel like a celebration.
 
Dietary Needs? No Problem!
Whether you’re gluten-free, vegan, or have specific allergies, we’ll make sure your meals are tailored to you.
 
$3,000 Value

On this Retreat, You'll Date your Spouse Again!

Every couple is different, and so are the ways we reconnect with our partners. That’s why we’ve created an incredible lineup of romantic and adventurous date experiences for you to enjoy during the retreat. Whether you’re looking for peaceful moments of intimacy or thrilling adventures to share, these dates are all about fun, connection, and rebuilding your bond.
You can handpick your favorites or leave the planning to us. Either way, you’ll leave with memories to treasure forever.
$2,000 Value

Here are some Dates You'll Love-

Beach Picnic
Snorkling
Surf Lesson
Outdoor Movie
Art Class
Slow Dancing
Sunset Beach Walk
Horseback Riding
Sunset Beach Walk
tropical Cooking Class

Your Very Own Private Cabana or Cabin Awaits

We believe every couple deserves a private space to unwind, reflect, and reconnect. At our retreat, you’ll have the choice of accommodations that best suit your style: cozy cabanas or upgraded cabins for those seeking a little extra luxury.

Cabanas: Nestled in nature and designed with simplicity and comfort in mind, our cabanas offer the perfect space to relax and recharge.

Cabins (Upgrade Available): For couples who desire more space and upscale amenities, our private cabins provide a luxurious retreat within the retreat.

We’ll reach out to help you choose your preferred accommodation ahead of time, so everything is tailored to your needs. This way, you can relax knowing your perfect space is waiting for you.

Daily Coaching to Reunify, Strengthen, and Transform Your Relationship

We know every couple’s story is unique, and that’s why we’ve designed the coaching at this retreat to meet you exactly where you are. From the moment you arrive, we’ll work with you individually to understand your needs, your challenges, and your vision for your relationship.

Individual Sessions: During your stay, you’ll have four private sessions with us, where we’ll dive deep into the specific areas of your relationship that need healing. These sessions are personal, focused, and tailored to help you rediscover intimacy and rebuild trust.

Daily Group Sessions: Every day, we’ll also gather as a group to learn powerful tools and strategies for communication, connection, and growth. You’ll gain insights, share experiences, and be inspired by other couples on the same journey.

We’re here to guide you every step of the way, offering the skills and support you need to move from ashes to intimacy. These sessions are at the heart of this retreat—your opportunity to heal, rebuild, and create the relationship you’ve always wanted. This is more than just coaching—it’s transformation. And we can’t wait to walk this journey with you.
Customized Individual Support:
Four private coaching sessions tailored to your unique challenges and relationship goals, ensuring every couple gets the personalized attention they need.
 
Daily Group Learning:
Engaging group sessions where you’ll learn proven tools and strategies to rebuild trust, deepen communication, and reignite intimacy.
 
Transformative Techniques:
Practical skills and actionable insights designed to take your relationship from struggle to strength, guiding you toward a renewed connection.
 
Guidance from Experts:
With years of experience helping couples heal and thrive, we’re here to support you every step of the way.
 
$3,000 Value

Meet Couples Who Truly Understand Your Journey

One of the most powerful parts of this retreat is the opportunity to connect with other couples who “get it.” Like you, they’ve faced challenges like infidelity or addiction, and they’re here with the same mission: to heal, grow, and create a stronger, more loving relationship.
We’ve intentionally kept this retreat intimate, with limited spots available, every couple has the chance to build meaningful, lasting relationships. The bonds you’ll create here are different—they’re with people who understand your struggles and celebrate your victories alongside you.
You’ll share stories, laughter, and breakthroughs together, creating a community of support that extends far beyond your time in Hawaii. These couples become more than just retreat attendees—they become lifelong friends who walk the path of healing and love with you.
Value: Priceless

Connect with Us and Your Group Before the Retreat

To make this retreat truly transformative, we want to get to know you, your story, and your goals before you even step foot in Hawaii. That’s why we’ve designed an exclusive pre-retreat experience to ensure you’re ready to make the most of your time with us.

Here’s what you’ll receive before the retreat:

  • 2 x 30-Minute Strategy Sessions with Us: These one-on-one sessions will help us understand your unique relationship dynamics, challenges, and hopes for the future. We’ll tailor your retreat experience to address exactly what you need.

  • 2 x 30-Minute Group Meet & Greets: Join us and the rest of the retreat attendees to connect in advance. These sessions will break the ice, build excitement, and give you a chance to meet the incredible couples who will share this journey with you.


By the time you arrive, you’ll already feel connected to us and your group, ready to dive into a week of healing, growth, and reconnection. We can’t wait to meet you and start this journey together!
 
James and Daegan Phoenix

To Help You Heal, You’ll Also Receive These Free Gifts

We’re committed to giving you all the tools you need to create lasting change in your relationship. That’s why, when you secure your spot at the retreat, we’re including these incredible resources to support your healing journey—before, during, and after the retreat.
These gifts are designed to make your transformation even more impactful. Together, they’ll help you continue the work you begin at the retreat and keep your relationship strong long after you leave Hawaii.

Printed "Spells to Make your Husband the Perfect Man for You"

Value: $50

Printed Roadmap to Intimacy after Infidelity

Value: $50

Free Copy of Cheat on your Sex Addiction

Value: $50

12 Months of Virtual Coaching Sessions:

$20,000 Value

Here’s A Recap Of EVERYTHING You’ll Get When You Score A Spot For The Healing Couple's Retreat Today!

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But Maybe You Have A Question?

  • Okay! Questions are totally cool and smart.

The retreat will take place in the serene and beautiful Haleiwa, Hawaii, a lush paradise on the island’s North Shore, perfect for relaxation and healing. Our next retreat is scheduled for February 3–10, 2025. Don’t wait to secure your spot—this intimate experience fills up quickly!

If your relationship has been shaken by heartbreak—whether from infidelity, addiction, or other challenges—and you’re ready to rebuild trust, reignite intimacy, and move forward together, this retreat is for you.

We’ve created this experience for couples who:

Want to Heal Together: Learn how to break free from cycles of hurt, rebuild trust, and create a stronger foundation for your future.
Desire Deeper Connection: Discover tools and strategies to improve communication, deepen intimacy, and reignite the spark in your relationship.
Are Ready to Move Forward: Whether you’re still in the midst of struggle or looking to strengthen your bond after heartbreak, this retreat provides the guidance and support you need to take the next step.

Value Expert Support: With years of experience helping couples heal, we’ll give you personalized coaching and actionable solutions tailored to your unique story.

This isn’t just a retreat—it’s a transformation. By the time you leave, you and your partner will have the tools, clarity, and confidence to move forward with a renewed sense of love and purpose.

If you’re committed to healing and ready to rewrite your story, this retreat is exactly what you’ve been looking for.

We get it. The idea of sharing your story or struggles with other couples can feel intimidating. But don’t worry—we’ve got you covered.
The couples who join us are just like you: kind, courageous, and committed to healing. They’ve faced their own challenges, and they’re here because they understand what it’s like to fight for their relationship.
We’ve intentionally kept this retreat small and intimate, so it’s a safe, supportive space for everyone. You’ll find no judgment here—just understanding, encouragement, and a shared mission to create something beautiful from the ashes.
Trust us, by the end of the retreat, you’ll not only feel inspired but you might just leave with lifelong friendships, too.

For this retreat, we do not offer a money-back guarantee due to the significant fixed costs involved in creating an event of this magnitude.
However, if you’re unable to attend and can find another couple to take your place, we’ll gladly transfer your spot to them.
We’re confident that this retreat will be a life-changing experience, and we can’t wait to welcome you!

The cost includes everything: pickup and drop off at the airport, your accommodations, gourmet farm-to-table meals, daily coaching sessions, group activities, and all planned excursions. The only additional costs would be your travel to and from Hawaii and optional cabin upgrades.

We understand that taking this step can feel daunting. Our retreat is designed to provide a safe, supportive environment where both partners feel heard and valued. Many couples find that once they arrive, they’re fully committed to the journey together.

Yes! While we have planned sessions and activities, there’s also plenty of free time for you and your partner to relax, explore, or enjoy Hawaii’s natural beauty at your own pace.

We recommend packing comfortable clothing for coaching sessions, swimwear, casual outfits for excursions, and something nice for your sunset vow renewal. A full packing list will be provided closer to the event.

Yes! Whether you’re in the midst of a crisis or simply looking to strengthen your bond, the tools and experiences we provide are tailored to meet you wherever you are in your relationship.

You’ll fly into Honolulu International Airport, and from there, we’ll arrange transportation to the Hawaii Happiness Farm. We’ll provide all the details once you’ve registered.

Absolutely! Many couples choose to extend their trip to enjoy more of Hawaii’s beauty. Let us know if you’d like to extend your stay at our farm or if you’d like recommendations for accommodations or activities after the retreat.

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About our Healing Couples Retreat

Porn addiction had driven a wedge between us for years. It felt like we were on opposite sides, unable to find a way back to each other. The retreat gave us the space to truly understand one another’s pain and perspectives. The coaching sessions were life-changing, and being surrounded by couples who understood what we were going through made us feel less alone. This retreat didn’t just help us—it gave us the tools to rebuild trust and intimacy in ways we never thought possible.
Sarah & Mike
After 20 years of marriage, we’d grown apart. Between raising kids, stressful jobs, and daily life, we’d forgotten how to prioritize each other. This retreat was exactly what we needed. From the peaceful mornings meditating together to the fun dates like snorkeling and paddleboarding, we rediscovered the joy of just being us. The coaching gave us tools to communicate better, and the vow renewal ceremony was so special—it was like saying “I do” all over again. This retreat reminded us that our best years as a couple are still ahead of us.
Lisa & Tom
After infidelity nearly ended our marriage, we didn’t think we could ever rebuild the trust we’d lost. But this retreat showed us otherwise. Coach Daegan and James helped us open up in ways we hadn’t in years. The tools we learned, combined with the breathtaking vow renewal ceremony, reminded us why we fell in love in the first place. We came to Hawaii feeling broken, but we left with a deeper connection and hope for our future.
Amanda & Greg

Hawaii Happiness Farm

Haleiwa, Hawaii