Tony Robbins words hit me as if I had just jumped into the Pacific Ocean of Canada's west coast icy ocean water on New Year’s Eve. “You have been managing your relationship, your happiness, your emotions on the lowest level. You have been dismissing the feelings and needs of yourself and your spouse by criticizing and judging your own and his actions. If you want a passionate, exciting, high polarity relationship with your partner and yourself you must love unconditionally”. Surprisingly the shock of his words didn’t discourage me they empowered me. I recognized I had given away all of my power to bring the love, passion and wealth into my life, the life of our family and my marriage. Later I learned from Laura Doyle in my relationship coach training that I must respect my partner, and look only at my own actions to improve my happiness and ours as a couple.

Marriage has become the greatest self improvement project of our lives just as it had for Laura. My soul mate had become a mirror and I get to see where I need to improve. I decided right there and then to let go of my obsession with what he would not do for me or with me and focus instead of my own actions, behavior and self care/ self love, and entrepreneurship development. I have learned to focus on all my husband's amazing positive traits from being a sweet kind stepfather, to providing the funds for a beautiful exciting adventurous life together.

Now I wake up and rise up into my potential. My body, my mind and my soul are my top priorities as I love unconditionally and see my vision always in front of me as if it has all already come to pass.

It was at this moment of empowerment with Tony after years of suffering with depression as I only saw the limited, negative, disempowered viewpoint that my mother taught me, that I knew what my calling was. I must teach/ coach woman, men and families around the world to let go of what makes them sad and allow all the natural happiness that is within and around them to flow into their being. I had just learned what I had known since childhood that we have untapped superhero potential for happiness. On my vision board it went: I will open the Happiness Farm, a place we go to grow happiness. I couldn’t imagine woman, men and families around the world suffering needlessly for one more moment.

It took some time, some patience, some practice, some perseverance and many miracles but here we are offering the tools for woman, men, couples and families to begin again and grow their own superhero powers to create unlimited, life changing, happiness. How could I hide the news that true happiness and empowerment had been available all along.

The farm is a masterpiece and I can only offer credit to divinity for its inception and creation. Every aspect of its miraculous birth was inspired. The white horse galloping to the sound of the ocean and the tropical breeze backlit by sunlight and rainbows. The energy of Hawaii reverberates through the land, the orchards, the pools and cabanas, the horses, goats and chickens, the trails, the organic gardens but most importantly this energy is central to healing the hearts and minds of the people that come here. Happiness is our destiny and the whole farm is designed to nourish that happiness. Happiness is a seed you plant both physically and metaphorically at the happiness farm.

We plant new life in the Hawaiian soil, nourish it with fertilizer and water, pull out the weeds that grow around it and watch it turn into a beautiful fruit bearing tree. Just like you will plant nourish, grow and weed out negative patterns in your own happiness, connection, and love with yourself, your relationships and your work environment or business. This empowerment flows over into your business, your career, your wealth and that of your families. The principles of healing we learn at the happiness farm are universal to empowerment and growth. My favorite part of the farm is witnessing my clients find joy.